
Afghanistan, December 1989
When I requested a tour of the premises Arif led me up and down staircases and along passages and in and out of so many rooms I lost all sense of direction. From the guest room there were two exits, one leading through the kitchen down a flight of stairs to the storerooms below, one of which was filled with a supply of wood for winter heating. The second exit from the guest room took us along a short passage to the consulting room and the pharmacy. I was astonished to think this had been built as an average family home. Arif rented the premises from the owner who lived in Kabul with his family. He did say the landlord was a wealthy man, so perhaps his home was more splendid than average. I haven’t found any photos so I guess I didn’t take any – have included random pics for you to enjoy.

I particularly liked one of the upstairs rooms, which was empty and unused; a beautiful room with fret worked wooden designs decorating the walls and ceiling, arched alcoves in the walls. Sunlight streamed through two large windows which gave onto a view of the sloping hillside below us. ‘Why don’t you use this room? It is lovely,’ I asked.
Arif agreed, ‘Yes it is a nice room but there is no heating and it is too cold. If we were going to stay here I would install a bukhari but as you know we are going to build a new clinic in Saydabad.’
The decision to move the clinic had been taken earlier in the summer. Arif was not from Day Mirdad and had faced difficulties in being accepted by the people who were suspicious of strangers. These problems had been made worse by the animosity between Pashtun and Hazara, both of whom came daily to the clinic. Frequent disputes arose as they waited in the compound to consult Arif. The Pashtun people did not trust Arif because he worked with Hazaras, and often went touring in Hazara areas to treat leprosy patients. The Hazaras were equally suspicious of him because he was Pashtun. There were no leprosy patients amongst the Pashtun in the surrounding district and they resented the clinic being closed when Arif went to his monthly tour programme to treat Hazara leprosy patients.

I spotted a staircase leading further upwards. ‘What’s up there? More empty rooms?’
Arif replied, ‘The bathroom and toilet.’ Eager to see an inside loo and greatly intrigued as to what kind of plumbing system was used, I went upstairs. It was a hole in the floor, but the room had been constructed to jut out from the rest of the house so the waste dropped down a three storey lift shaft to a deep pit below. I’ve seen such arrangements in old Scottish castles.
Next morning Rahimy, bored with having no work to do, offered to help in the clinic. Jon frowned forbiddingly over Arif’s accounts. From time to time, Arif would take a break from his patients to come and see how things were going. As he became more manic, the more silent Jon became. The building estimates for the new clinic were too high, and Arif had already overspent on the work done. The difficulty in finding money from donors was explained and when I suggested he could perhaps manage with fewer rooms; perhaps an office and two guest rooms were not entirely necessary, he seemed agreeable to the suggested cut backs.

I was silently congratulating myself on how easy it had been, when he took the wind out of my sails. ‘Now it is winter the builders will not be able to work until next spring. You can go back to Pakistan and write your reports for the donors – I shall tell you many stories, sister, stories they will like – and get the rest of the money we need for the building to continue in spring.’
I repeated all the arguments and finally, the budget was reduced to an amount more or less acceptable to both parties, though I suspected we’d have the same arguments the following spring.

In the meantime, I was happy to hear Arif’s stories. Each month he travelled to one or other of the treatment points, established to allow patients from further afield to come for medicines. Once, on the way, he was kidnapped by a Party commander and imprisoned in a mountain cave. The commander and his men spent several days joy riding around in Arif’s jeep, almost wrecking it in the process. When Arif did not arrive at the expected time at the treatment point, the people began to worry about him, and when his jeep, mujahideen spilling over the sides, was spotted, they guessed what had happened. The villagers marched, en masse, to see the commander, demanding Arif’s release. The commander tried to persuade them it was in Arif’s interests for his clinic, medicines, equipment and money to come under the control of the commander and his Party – so they could ‘look after it’. The people insisted the clinic, the jeep and everything else belonged, not to the Party but to them. Sweeping aside the commander and his men, they released Arif from his mountain jail and carried him, shoulder high, back to the village.
Despite a tendency to tell stories which dwelt rather lovingly on his superior medical knowledge and his excellent public relations successes Arif was also able to tell stories against himself – such as his first tooth extraction. Not having any dental equipment other than local anaesthetic and dental cartridges, Arif sent his assistant to the carpenter to procure a pair of pliers. In the meantime, he prepared the anaesthetic. His patient, despite the pain his rotten tooth was causing, became slightly anxious.
‘Sister, it was dreadful. I forgot how hard gums are. When I tried to inject my patient the needle bent, just like this.’ He crooked his finger to demonstrate before continuing, ‘Most of the anaesthetic dribbled out of his mouth, so his lips went numb more than his gum. Ashraf brought the pliers and I tried to pull the tooth out. You know, Sister, I am a very small person – and that tooth was deeply rooted. It was a struggle. By this time, my patient wanted to leave, and tried to get out of the chair but I put my knee on his chest and pulled really hard. The tooth came out. There was a lot of blood, though, and the patient was not happy with me. I did not charge him any fees for this service.’ Having been a lifelong coward in the dentist’s chair I could feel my toes curl as Arif told his story.

Another commander objected to Arif working amongst the Hazaras and was trying to push him out of the area. When Arif was visiting a village on tour, he was asked to go to the home of an old woman who needed medical treatment. The woman had an eye infection which had caused her pain and distress for some time but it was easily treated. It turned out she was the commander’s mother. When Arif returned to check on the progress of her eyes, the woman asked if there was anything she could do for him. He explained the problems he was facing because her son did not want him to work there. She assured Arif he would have no more trouble and indeed, a few days later, the commander himself arrived at the clinic – bringing a gift of a chicken from his mother, and assurances that Arif could come and go and work freely in his area.

It must have been so frustrating having to deal with the local power of those self-styled commanders. Brave of the village people to gang up and demand his freedom though.
I have also seen those ‘drop toilets’ on castle battlements. They seem intended to drop the contents directly into the surrounding moat. I can only imagine what the moat must have been like in a hot summer!
Best wishes, Pete.
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It really was. The following year, Roseanna (who had been working in the Jaghoray hospital) was on a tour of the clinics. Arif requested that she did not visit his clinic as there were some tensions but she insisted on going and afterwards Arif’s uncle was arrested and thrown in jail!
At least Arif’s drop toilet went down into a pit dug in the ground.
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A good incentive not to attempt crossing that moat!
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I’m not sure what’s worse, having a rotten tooth or getting it removed with pliers and little anesthetic!
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Tough call, Jacquie. I loved that Arif grandly announced he didn’t charge for his dental service!
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I’ve just had a tooth out! Luckily the dentist had the proper gear, Arif is such a character!
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I’m glad you didn’t have Arif doing it! He ordered loads of dental equipment after his first experience – but pliers and pliers as far as I’m concerned. He is a character and such a great story teller.
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Arif’s stories are great. As are yours. Another great episode.
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Thank you, Darlene, glad you enjoyed it. Arif is a wonderful story teller.
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Teeth and toilets…another great episode Mary… there were certainly some great characters there …Loved the part about the rescue …People Power certainly can work 🙂 x
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Oooh, ‘teeth and toilets’ would have made a better title, Carol 🙂 Yay to People Power and the art of story telling.
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Yes.. Yeah to story telling x
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Great share. The tooth story reminds me of the time I had a root canal, at 12, with the Novocain not working.
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Ouch, ouch! I had a root canal a couple of years ago with plenty of Novocain and it still wasn’t a pleasant experience so I can hardly imagine how awful it must have been for you – enough to put you off dentists for life 🙂
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And i was doing so well until the dentistry… and the power or the cured mother, a worldwide phenomenon
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Sorry about the dentist story, Geoff. The ‘cured mother’ story is indeed found everywhere, which proves it must be true 🙂
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Another reminder Mary of the effect tribalism has in so many countries. I doubt there will ever be an end to it. Brilliant that these stories will contu=inue to live and travel around the blogosphere forever.
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I fear you are right, Lucinda, it runs so deep I don’t see how it can be ended. I wonder if things will remain on the blogosphere or if they will be readable when some new model comes along?
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Another fantastic post Mary and Arif certainly sounds like a consumate storyteller and I have seen budgets like that too… think of a number and multiply by two..I once had an attempted extraction with a failed nerve block and it took hypnosis to get me back in the chair even with my dental nurse background. In Ireland even during David’s childhood anaesthetics were considered only for high days and holidays! As to the long drop…lol… as Pete says noticeable in summer… xxx
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Thanks, Sally. Yes, Arif is a great story teller and a very knowledgeable medic. He is now the overall medical director of the organisation. Your dental experience sounds horrific. I had a very nasty experience when I was a child and the dentist used gas. It was probably fortunate I visited the clinic in winter!
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He certainly had his challenges but clearly a very accomplished leader…xx
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OMG Lol “I did not charge him any fees for this service.” Yes, some dentists should not be allowed to use nitrous oxide. I also had an experience there in my childhood. I was told that I almost didn’t get up any more. Thank you for sharing another interesting episode, Mary! Have a beautiful week! Michael
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Thank you, Michael. I believe there were several deaths of children in the old days when they were put under gas to have teeth extracted. No wonder there was so much fear of dentists! Stay safe.
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I felt for Arif’s patient. I could not imagine being in that chair. I would have passed out.
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I think I would, too, John. I’m not sure he’d have even got me to sit in the chair in the first place.
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That would be the first line of defense. Don’t sit in the chair. 😂
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Each of your stories is a gift. They are meant to be read and read again. I love pulling one of your books off of my shelves and diving into a world I can only read about. It is irrelevant how many times I’ve read them before as it is like returning to my favorite beach, walking along the sand then diving in. I’ve always preferred going in headfirst… xxx
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Aw, Lea, what a lovely thing to say. I’m so pleased you have enjoyed my books as well as these blog posts. You made my day 🙂
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The two of you books I don’t have yet are on my list… and there will always be room for your work on my bookshelves. Virtual hugs. 🙂
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Okay, I don’t know which is worse, the tooth removal or the sound of that bathroom! Omgggggggg Mary! 🙂 xx
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Oh, the tooth removal without doubt, Debby. The bathroom was the last word in luxury for me – not having to go outside to crouch behind a rock, never quite sure if I could be seen!
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Omg Mary, it’s all so surreal, yet, that was life. 🙂
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Mary these chapters are so amazing, do you how any of these wonderful people are doing now?
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Thank you, Willow. Yes, I keep in touch with some of my former colleagues and through them I hear of how others are doing. Arif is now the medical director of the organisation. Jawad, who started as Hussain’s driver in Jaghoray (way back in the early weeks of these blog posts) is now overall co-ordinator. The other day I spoke to a woman who was one of my students and her daughter on FB video call. Her other daughter is a midwife. I think when you make friends in Afghanistan, you make friends for life.
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I think that is truly wonderful, these amazing people have all grown in their jobs and it so great that you are still in touch. It’s a credit to you really 💜
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As someone who has never liked going to the dentist, I’ll probably have nightmares about pliers tonight.
It has to be challenging to help people when they don’t trust you.
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Sorry about that, Pete! Mistrust, especially when it has been present for centuries is a major challenge in Afghanistan.
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Another fascinating account, Mary. I’m hugely impressed at the villagers freeing Arif – it can’t have been without jeopardy! And then there’s the Teeth and Toilets…
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Thank you – glad you enjoyed the latest post. The villagers showed a great example of people power! I rather liked the toilet as it meant I didn’t have to go outside, especially as it was becoming very cold!
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I enjoyed this episode. Arif sounds like a real character!
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He really is. I became very fond of my ‘brother’.
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He must have helped you get through some of the challenging times?
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He certainly kept me well entertained with his stories 🙂
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I love these steps back in time, and more & more I wish to see this part of the world. I suppose even live there for a bit just to experience it as your writing brings back memories of my first time working/traveling/living overseas and the intrigue of it all. However, I do have a sense of the difficulties Arif would have, and you explain well: “The Pashtun people did not trust Arif because he worked with Hazaras, and often went touring in Hazara areas to treat leprosy patients. The Hazaras were equally suspicious of him because he was Pashtun.” What a life…
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I think you would love Afghanistan! I spent three years in Pakistan before going to Afghanistan and although I really enjoyed my there it didn’t get under my skin in the same way. Ethnic divisions run deep, which can hamper progress.
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It sounds like such an adventure. Thank you for sharing it.
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Thank you for reading, Rob. It’s my pleasure to down memory lane 🙂
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Mary, I am late in reading, as always, I enjoyed this so much. In these unprecedented times, your stories take me to a place I know nothing about. Reading what you write allows me to escape for a moment which is a welcome relief.
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Glad to help you escape for a moment – I do know how important that is right now. I’m enjoying sharing the stories and remembering my adventures. And tonight, I spent half an hour of a video chat with one of my students and her daughter. It is over thirty years since we met and it was wonderful to catch up. My student eventually became a teacher and she also ensured all her children received good educations – two are still at school but the rest are all working in wonderful jobs.
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