When we arrived home, everyone trooped out to welcome me and I felt extraordinarily glad to be back, although there was an air of suppressed excitement about Hussain which made me wonder what was afoot.
Ali Baba and Ismail vied with each other telling me tales of the recent fighting. Throughout my stay in Malestan I had never heard a shot fired in anger, nor heard of any fighting. The three Parties in that district seemed content to maintain a peaceful status quo – or perhaps they shared Mubarak’s apathy for anything troublesome.
While I was unpacking Hussain asked, ‘Well, Mum, what did you think of Malestan?’ Before I could open my mouth, he proceeded to answer the question himself, ‘The people are not as educated as Jaghoray people, and of course they are much poorer.’
I replied, ‘Well, I admit Jaghoray is more prosperous but Malestan is peaceful – and the women are much more free, which I liked.’
Hussain snorted. ‘Free? Free to work all day in the fields! Is that what you call freedom? Our women don’t need to be field workers. Their husbands can provide for them; they are free to stay at home.’ I was still trying to formulate a suitable reply, hampered by my knowledge that in the UK in the 1950s and 60s some men did not want their wives to take jobs outside the home because it reflected badly on their ability to provide for their families, but Hussain had moved on.
‘I’m very worried about how slowly the work is going on the new clinic. Sometimes when I go there to check only one man is working, the rest have gone to do some other job. They know that we are too busy to supervise them. I think we have to move in now, and then they will work faster. What do you think?’
‘I think you’re mad. How can we move in? The roof isn’t on yet. Where would we sleep, where would Baqul cook, how could you run the clinic? There isn’t even a latrine!’
‘We can build a latrine in a few hours and we can live and work in tents.’ He flapped his hand about airily, all problems solved. I knew there was no point in arguing.
‘When were you thinking of moving?’
He gave me one of his most engaging grins, ‘Tomorrow.’
I began walking towards the door. ‘Where are you going? Don’t be angry.’
At the door, I turned, ‘I’m going to ask Baqul for hot water for a bath – it sounds like I might not have the chance of one for a while.’
It was actually two more days before the move was made – two days of frenzied activity, begging tents, hiring transport and packing all the equipment, furnishings and medicines. A large notice on the door stated normal clinic timings would be kept at the Mazar Bibi clinic. It seemed a bit hard on Latifa who was scheduled to have her ears syringed the day we moved. She now faced a three hour walk to reach the new clinic.
Saying goodbye to friends in the village was painful. Sughra spent the morning in tears. We all knew we would not see each other for a long time, despite the fact I would only be an hour’s drive away. For them, that meant a six hour round trip on foot – not possible for a social visit – and I understood that Hussain would be unwilling to bring me back to Sangsuragh very often. He could barely conceal his delight at leaving the village and moving into his own home territory.

I have absolutely no idea what Hussain and and I are doing – obviously looking at something fascinating!
Excited as a boy scout on his first camping trip, he was eager to show me our new quarters. One tent contained the medicines and was to serve as the consulting room. A smaller tent accommodated Baqul, his collection of pots, pans and other culinary equipment. He was already busy, fussing over a primus stove outside his ‘kitchen’. The third, largest tent was our living and sleeping quarters and I was surprised, and delighted, to discover it was luxuriously different from my notions of roughing it under canvas. The well flattened earth floor had been covered by our brightly striped gilims, mattresses and cushions were arranged invitingly around the canvas walls. A central flap converted the large living space into two sleeping rooms. The gas lamps hung from hooks, and even my bookcase had been set in place. Very ‘days of the Raj-ish’.

Hard at work. The new clinic starts to take shape
The temporary latrine was a hundred yards up the mountain, offering a great view of the surrounding countryside.

Temporary latrine

Interior view
Baqul, by some feat of magic on his primus stove, provided a feast. After dinner we sat outside watching the moon rise from behind the mountain and tried naming the stars. The Milky Way was a broad band of white sweeping across the sky, and it was astonishing to see how many stars could be seen in Orion, which at home I picked out by his belt. Occasionally we would glimpse a shooting star. Jawad explained that everyone in the world has his or her own star in the sky and when that person dies his star falls down. I told how we wish on a falling star.
We sat talking late into the night. When we could stifle our yawns no longer we retired to bed. Ali Baba, Ismail and Jawad shared one room. Hussain shared mine, explaining that he thought I might be afraid to sleep by myself. I suspected the real reason was that there wasn’t a great deal of room left once the other three laid out their sleeping bags and blankets.
Hussain had been right – our presence certainly ensured the building work sped up considerably. Before long there was a roof on the consulting room, though patients had been arriving long before it was on – and another over the bathroom.
I thought I’d experienced a few ‘crude loos’ but you win hands down. Unless you count ducking behind a sand dune in the Atlas mountains! That aside, what a demanding yet rewarding experience you had.
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The view from the loo was spectacular! And yes, my time in Afghanistan was rewarding and I feel very privileged to had had those years there, ‘crude loos’ or even no loos!
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I love the photos, including the latrine. Have you got albums full of pictures at home Mary?
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I have some albums, especially of later years. I am on a mission to sort out our attic and have found boxes with photos, slides, notebooks, reports and diaries so am trying to sort them out. As I was working most of the time I often went weeks without taking any photos, something I regret now. I can’t seem to find any to show what an amazingly beautiful landscape it is. Also, I was a pretty rubbish photographer – I’m sure I could do better if I went back to try again.
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I think that latrine is going to fascinate all of us. And to think I used to complain as a child about having a solid outside toilet with a wooden seat and a flushing cistern. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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It was quite an experience, Pete, and I’m glad I wasn’t there in the winter when the snow reached the rooftops. It would have been a bit of an endurance test. I tried not to have to visit the loo after dark but when I did the night sky was just incredible.
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This is a great series, Mary. It is amazing that you went through all this.
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Thanks, John, I’m pleased you are still with me on the trip and enjoying it. Sometimes, when I look back I wonder how I managed, not only that but felt my life was perfectly normal!
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Hahahah. I think we all have that experience when we are in unusual situations. Youth helps.
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It does, indeed. I’m not sure how I’d cope now!
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I know what you mean. Thanks, Mary. Happy Sunday although it is getting close to being over there.
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Yes, we’re well into the evening now after a very wet and windy Sunday.
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We have rain as well. No wind though.
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Mary, even in the middle of this remote ‘campsite’ of an existence for a few days I have to cheer how “even my bookcase had been set in place”. Impressive … which is not the case of the latrine! Your experiences are incredible and described vividly and with skill. Are you planning on a book based on these posts? I may have asked before … they are superb!
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Hussain knew how important my books were! He and the other staff members really looked after me. I’ve never been camping since. I don’t think anything could match that experience! I haven’t really been planning to put the posts together as a book but others have asked the question so perhaps I should. Glad you are enjoying them.
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I think you should seriously think about the book, Mary. You have an amazing, unique and important story to tell and it is rivetting!
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I’ll think about it. It was a long time ago, though.
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I agree, Annika. I think Mary’s Afghanistan experiences would make a wonderful book.
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I have written one memoir about working in Afghanistan, focusing on the last three years there. It’s called Drunk Chickens and Burnt Macaroni: Real Stories of Afghan Women. There’s a link on the left.
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Another brilliant chapter 💜
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Thanks so much, Willow.
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It’s so enjoyable 💜
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Wonderful from the latrine Mary…That was certainly glamping in your sleeping tent and you continue to amaze me with your nonchalance….what an adventure. My husband tried to tempt me into a tent on our first visit to the Lake District.. it did not work out so well and the local inn was put to good use.. xx
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Camping’s not my cup of tea, either, Sally. I guess it was glamping in Afghanistan – before it had even been invented here – and was remarkably comfortable. Not so much the loo, despite the great view.
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Not inconceivable to be disturbed by an nosy mountain goat up there! xx
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Or even a female patient wanting a private consultation!
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I meant to say view from the latrine…. x
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Understood!
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I particularly like the detail of every person in the world having their own star that falls from the sky when he or she dies.
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I loved that, too, Liz. The strange thing is, many years later I wrote a poem called Shooting Stars in Afghanistan in which I said that each shooting star was believed to be a person thrown out of paradise, which is a very different interpretation. I have confused myself now! I prefer the interpretation I have in this post.
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I prefer the kinder, gentler interpretation as well!
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Very tough times, Mary, but very rewarding, I’m sure. Thanks for sharing your experiences with all of us. ♥
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Thanks for reading, Olga. Yes, it was definitely rewarding.
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