I’m just back from my first ever trip to Canada with souvenirs, photos, lots of memories – and about 20 new family members I’d never met before. Obviously, I didn’t bring them home with the souvenirs, but I hope they will visit me in Scotland so I can repay some of the hospitality they showed me.

I won’t name them all, but this is a huge chunk of my newly met Canadian family.
My Aunt May’s 90th birthday was the catalyst for making the trip. My dad’s sister, she went to Canada before I was born but we met whenever she came ‘home’. She usually came over on her own and I never met my cousins. When they did visit Scotland I was away from home.
My aunt kept in touch, usually by phone, and when she had a stroke my cousin, Grace emailed to let me know and she and I continued to correspond. As my aunt recovered, she resumed her phone calls. Once, I was asking questions about family and she said: “You’d better come over here so we can talk properly!” Then, my cousin reminded me it was her mum’s 90th birthday and so I booked my flight.
I was to be the big surprise at my aunt’s birthday party. Grace had been planning a dinner at home but when she realised how many were coming wisely decided to book a room in a restaurant. I admit I was feeling pretty nervous as we drove there. My cousin Grace and I had been blethering like old friends since I arrived – but would meeting everyone else be the same?

I think the big reveal was a big success

Happy birthday, Aunt May
I’ll do some more Canadian pics next time – this post is just for me and Aunt May!
What a wonderful occasion.
LikeLiked by 1 person
It was, Liz. I had a great time both at the birthday party and for the following two weeks.
LikeLike
It sounds like a wonderful trip and an even more wonderful surprise. Well done you!
LikeLiked by 1 person
I was worried about the surprise bit as it could have gone so wrong. What if my aunt didn’t recognise me after six years and a major stroke? It all worked out really well, though.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Mary, what a great adventure to Canada. It must have been a treat for you all to meet up. Best wishes to your aunt on her ninetieth birthday. I imagine you collected lots of intriguing stories during your Canadian adventure. Welcome back!
LikeLiked by 1 person
Thanks, Jessie. Yes, it was a great adventure and I’m so glad I went. I’ll have to go back to see more on my ‘must visit’ list, which grew day by day.
LikeLike
Those kind of events are so special and I’m sure everyone enjoyed meeting their ‘exotic’ Scottish relative. It was great that you could make the birthday, Mary – for you, Aunt May and your dad.
LikeLiked by 1 person
I don’t know about ‘exotic’, Lynn! I certainly enjoyed meeting them. I’ll always remember the look on my aunt’s face when she saw me – and, yes, Dad would be delighted.
LikeLiked by 1 person
We surprised my Mum on her 60th birthday and I honestly thought we might kill her from the shock. Clearly your Aunt May is made of tougher stuff …
LikeLiked by 1 person
I was worried the surprise might have an unfortunate consequences, especially as she’d had a massive stroke at the end of 2016. Should have realised that if she could fight back from that, she could cope with anything!
LikeLike
Good old Aunt May. She looks so happy to see you. Worth the trip for that alone, I reckon.
Best wishes, Pete.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Thanks, Pete. I do enjoy looking at the photo of when she first saw me. Lovely to know someone was so happy to see me! I’m very glad someone had arranged for a photographer for the day as I didn’t manage to take a single picture at the party.
LikeLiked by 1 person
This looks wonderful, Mary. What a great experience for you!
LikeLiked by 1 person
Thanks, Terry, it was an amazing two weeks.
LikeLike
How lovely! And what a special trip xx
LikeLiked by 1 person
It was indeed a special trip, Cathy, and I’m so glad I made the effort to go. I have to go back!
LikeLike
Reblogged this on Smorgasbord – Variety is the spice of life and commented:
How wonderful to celebrate an aunt’s 90th birthday by leaping on a plane and surprising her at her party, and meeting relatives for the first time. Mary Smith went to her Aunt May’s 90th.. and what a wonderful photograph of them both. Family is treasure….
LikeLiked by 1 person
Thanks for re-blogging, Sally.
LikeLike
This is so wonderful, Mary. An event of a lifetime. And doesn’t;t she looked thrilled! Well done, you..
LikeLiked by 1 person
Thanks, Judith. I think the photographer captured the moment perfectly.
LikeLike
What a wonderful surprise for your aunt. Glad you got to visit our country Mary. Where were you in Canada? 🙂
LikeLiked by 1 person
I was in Vancouver, Debby. Although I was on the go the whole fortnight I have a very long list of places still to see!
LikeLiked by 1 person
Oh okay Mary. Yes, you must come east to Toronto! And let me know when you do! 🙂 x
LikeLiked by 1 person
I’d love to visit the east some time. Will definitely let you know if I’m ever headed to Toronto. I do have friends (two of my ex’s sisters) in Oshawa which is not so far away.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Deal! Yes, Oshawa is about 40 minutes away from me. 🙂
LikeLiked by 1 person
I’m saving my pennies towards my next trip 🙂
LikeLiked by 1 person
🙂
LikeLiked by 1 person
So glad you had a great time. Looking forward to the next bloggers reunion. 🙂
LikeLiked by 1 person
Thanks, Christoph. I was sorry to miss this year’s Bash. I didn’t see you in any of the pics on various blogs. Were you there or did you miss this year, too?
LikeLiked by 1 person
I was in there but only in one picture at the end. You can spot Wally ehm Christoph in the final group picture. I think Ritu may have posted it on her blog, I’ve seen it once only…
xxx
LikeLiked by 1 person
Hope to catch up with you next year 🙂
LikeLiked by 1 person
Family is everything, Mary. What a wonderful celebration for you all.
LikeLiked by 1 person
It was wonderful, Robbie. Some of the cousins, spouses and children had to go home after the part but some stayed on in Vancouver and we had a great time. It felt like we’d known each other forever.
LikeLiked by 1 person
How special for you to surprise her on her 90th birthday. I love the look on her face. So pleased you had a good time and look forward to more pictures.
LikeLiked by 1 person
I’ll put up some pics of where I visited in my next blog post – once I’ve worked out where they are. I’m the world’s worst at not recording the photos I take.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Reblogged this on Die Erste Eslarner Zeitung – Aus und über Eslarn, sowie die bayerisch-tschechische Region!.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Thanks so much for sharing, Michael.
LikeLike
sorry, I cried; yep I’m a sucker for these sorts of things. Soooo glad it went well
LikeLiked by 1 person
Soppy tears are good, Geoff. I love the expression on my aunt’s face when she saw me come towards her. It was quite an emotional moment.
LikeLiked by 1 person
What a treasure trove of memories, Mary! Such a blessing. The photos are beautiful ❤️
LikeLiked by 1 person
A treaure trove of memories is exactly right, Tina. It was wonderful to be there for the big occasion and to see the surprise and delight on my aunt’s face is something I’ll never forget. Thanks so much for dropping by.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Such a lovely reunion. The pictures speak volumes.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Thanks so much for dropping by and leaving a comment. I’m so glad someone arranged for photos to be taken because I was too busy talking to take any!
LikeLike
Yes, I can imagine…meeting the whole family after aeons…whoever it was has captured every precious moment. Loved reading about it!
LikeLiked by 1 person
Welcome back, Mary! And OH, what a great post! How lovely to see your family, and to share in your aunt’s happy surprise when you appeared. She looks so delighted, and honestly, I teared up a bit, seeing what joy your visit brought her. (And you.) To think you were nervous! I’m so glad you finally met this part of your family and hope you are able to enjoy them ALL for a long time to come. Thanks for sharing such a warm and loving moment with us. And I’m looking forward to more pictures! 😀 ❤
LikeLiked by 1 person
Good to be back, Marcia. So pleased you enjoyed the post. It was quite emotional. It was also a bit odd to have the moment witnessed by so many people I hadn’t yet met – and now we’re family.
LikeLike
What a lovely post. Thanks for sharing your family reunion with us, Mary. Loved the photos – looking forward to seeing more.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Thanks, Wendy. Glad you enjoyed the post and the photos. More pics to come soon 🙂
LikeLike
How lovely, Mary. What a great surprise for Aunt May. I hope you had a great time and have got over the jetlag.
LikeLiked by 1 person
I did have a great time, Hugh, and, yes, I am now over the jet lag. I thought I’d escaped it when I first came home. The sun was shining so I went mad in the garden then two days in I was poleaxed. That’ll teach me to be smug!
LikeLiked by 1 person
How wonderful Mary so glad you had the opportunity to go to Canada to see your Aunt and cousins. I have relatives in Australia and Malaysia and the last time I went to that part of the world was many years ago I would love to go back one day.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Thanks, Marje. I’d been thinking about it and putting it off for years and when my cousin said said my aunt would be 90 it seemd the perfect opportunity to actually do it. I’m so glad I did. I’d love to go to Malaysia (less so Australia) one day. I need to wn the lottery and spend the next few years travelling the world.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Pingback: Smorgasbord Posts from Your Archives – #Potluck – MarySmithsPlace – Canada (part 3) | Smorgasbord Blog Magazine